Trans Life – Page 3

Hypothetical Questions (Empty)

Gender Hypotheticals, I found this on a discord I recently joined and plan to go through and give my responses. We typically approach gender (how we feel and relate) and sex (what genitals and/or chromosomes we have) as if they are fixed and unchangeable. Culturally, we are taught to assume our gender based on our… Continue reading Hypothetical Questions (Empty)

The reflection in the tears

I feel a deep despair. The mirror reflects a man in dismay I awake with the same hair, I know–it’s silly to expect to awake a different way. Unaware I was the pain reside, Unaware I was until eyes were open, In the sadness a reason hide, In the mirror one of the men. A… Continue reading The reflection in the tears

Feeling… despair

Emotions: hurt, confused, rejected, helpless, submissive, insecure, guilty, ashamed, stupid, inferior, lonely, tired, sleepy, apathetic, isolated, insignificant, hesitant, skeptical, withdrawn I feel hurt because I know my wife won’t accept me as a woman. I feel confused because I want to do anything I can to keep her. I feel rejected knowing that what I… Continue reading Feeling… despair

What I really wanted for Christmas

I’m sorry for yet another… kinda sad post from me. I’m just sad for… well because I feel unaccepted. It’s strange what happens when you recognize a problem. Especially when you don’t like the cost to resolve it. Anyway what I really wanted for Christmas (not that I wanted all of this): A cute outfit,… Continue reading What I really wanted for Christmas

The “secret” world of Hannietty

Ok I don’t think my name lends itself too well to this post, I definitely had Studio Ghibli in mind (The Secret World of Arrietty). I found great relief from my online friends. I don’t know if I talked much about this in any of my posts. But at some point after I knew I… Continue reading The “secret” world of Hannietty

Transgender “bible”

I’m thinking about adding a resource page for my blog site. It will contain bookmarks for transgender resources that I’ve come across on my journey. For now I wanted to post what is called the “transgender bible.” It’s definitely not a bible, it’s just a massive resource that is available. https://genderdysphoria.fyi/

What to do about transition

I wish I could tell you what you should do, a perfect formula. Use this to get out of any social barbs you may run into, use this to get yourself free from snags. I don’t have it. I think many of you are probably just plain bold enough to rely on your autonomy and… Continue reading What to do about transition

Am I Even Transgender?

I think this comes down to my mom getting to me. I think I need some help kind of sorting through all of this. I think I have an idea of what it comes down to. My mom mentioned the following things: I didn’t like playing with dolls growing up and chose being outside, playing… Continue reading Am I Even Transgender?

Prayer

Dear God, I want to transition into a female. I don’t think this takes away from sacred creation. I believe sin has entered our world and that birth has defects and an imperfect birth does not result in an imperfect creation. I believe sin has caused a grip on our hearts and souls and that… Continue reading Prayer

I just want you to set it aside and love yourself

I posted what follows to a group of transwomen: I hope today finds you well and you feel a little more feminine and a little more at home as a woman. I hope you take things less personally, and become skilled at picking your battles. Reserve energy for those who are truly worth it. I… Continue reading I just want you to set it aside and love yourself